LGBTQ Spirituality: A Journey of Love, Acceptance, and Self-Discovery

Introduction

LGBTQ+ spirituality is a broad term that encompasses the diverse spiritual beliefs and practices of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer people. It is a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and love, as LGBTQ+ people seek to connect with their own spirituality in a way that is authentic and meaningful to them.

There is no one-size-fits-all approach to LGBTQ+ spirituality. Some LGBTQ+ people find solace and comfort in traditional religious traditions, while others prefer to create their own spiritual paths. There are also many LGBTQ-specific spiritual communities and organizations that offer support and guidance.

No matter what form it takes, LGBTQ spirituality is a powerful force for healing and transformation. It can help LGBTQ+ people to:

  • Embrace their authentic selves
  • Develop a deeper sense of self-love
  • Connect with a supportive community
  • Find meaning and purpose in life
  • Heal from the wounds of homophobia and transphobia

Gay Spirituality

Gay spirituality is a specific branch of LGBTQ+ spirituality that focuses on the unique experiences and challenges of gay men. Gay men often face discrimination and prejudice, both within and outside of the religious community. This can make it difficult for them to find a spiritual path that is affirming and supportive.

However, there is a growing movement of gay spirituality that is challenging these stereotypes and creating new spaces for gay men to connect with their spirituality. Gay spiritual leaders and teachers are drawing on a variety of sources, including traditional religious teachings, queer theory, and personal experience, to develop new ways of thinking about and practicing spirituality.

Queer Spirituality

Queer spirituality is a more inclusive term that encompasses the spiritual experiences of all LGBTQ+ people, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Queer spirituality is often characterized by a rejection of traditional religious dogma and a willingness to explore new and innovative ways of thinking about spirituality.

Queer spiritual practitioners often draw inspiration from a variety of sources, including:

  • Nature
  • Art
  • Music
  • Poetry
  • Activism
  • Personal experience

Queer spirituality is often described as a journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. It is a process of letting go of shame and guilt, and embracing one’s authentic self. Queer spirituality can also be a source of strength and resilience, helping LGBTQ people to navigate the challenges of life in a heteronormative society.

LGBTQ+ Spirituality in Action

There are many ways that LGBTQ+ people can express their spirituality. Some LGBTQ people choose to participate in traditional religious services and rituals. Others prefer to create their own spiritual practices, such as meditation, prayer, or journaling.

There are also many LGBTQ-specific spiritual communities and organizations that offer support and guidance. These communities can provide a safe space for LGBTQ people to explore their spirituality and connect with other people who share their experiences.

Here are some examples of how LGBTQ people are expressing their spirituality in action:

  • LGBTQ-affirming churches are becoming increasingly common, offering a welcoming and inclusive space for LGBTQ people to worship.
  • Queer meditation groups are popping up all over the world, providing a safe space for LGBTQ people to meditate and connect with their spirituality.
  • LGBTQ-inclusive yoga classes are also becoming more popular, offering a way for LGBTQ people to move their bodies and connect with their spirits in a supportive environment.
  • LGBTQ spiritual retreats offer a chance for LGBTQ people to come together and explore their spirituality in a deeper way.

Conclusion

LGBTQ spirituality is a diverse and vibrant field that is constantly evolving. As LGBTQ people continue to break down barriers and create new spaces for themselves, we can expect to see even more innovative and inspiring expressions of LGBTQ spirituality in the years to come.

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What Does a Queer-Centric, Esoteric Catholic Deconstructionist Spirituality Look Like?

The Contemplative Order of Compassion was originally known as the Franciscan Companions of the Immaculata — a community of Queer Franciscans, who felt called to address the fear and discrimination being faced by people living with and dying from HIV/AIDS in the early 1980s.

Many of these people were denied contact with the outside world, and some were abandoned by their loved ones. And so the members of the Order made sure that everyone on the “AIDS Ward” as well as those released to “go home and get their affairs in order” had regular contact with at least one or two of our community members, so that they would no longer be abandoned and marginalised entirely.

Separating from the Roman Catholic Church, in 2001, the decision was made that we would take up the charism of St. Francis of Assisi, who was unafraid to call out and reject the corruption, politicisation and lack of compassion in the institutional church (and in religion in general) by becoming the first deconstructionist, queer-affirming, non-institutionalised and non-patriarchal Franciscan community and spiritual community.

We reject the Pauline and Augustinian versions of Christianity as being inconsistent with the esoteric spirituality embraced by the Rabbi Jesus of the traditional Christian mythos. Reaching back further to the spirituality of the monks of the Desert Skete, who lived a simple, contemplative life in the deserts of Egypt, Palestine, and Syria, we were inspired by the stories and sayings attributed to the Desert Fathers and Desert Mothers from approximately the 5th century of the Common Era.

For us, the historically-intact lineage or transmission of the teachings of the Palestinian Rabbi, Yeshua (Jesus) and the subsequent wisdom of the Desert Fathers and Desert Mothers, when taken holistically, and in concert with other Wisdom Traditions, forms the basis of a more fluid, authentic and compassionate expression of spirituality; one in which manipulative constructs like sin, salvation, and fear of imaginary places, like “Hell” has no place.

And so the Order would evolve into something that is truly unique.

There are practitioners who are ordained servants of the Community, and some whose practices operate outside of ordained life. Some prefer a more traditional liturgical observance and ritual, while others express their spirituality in a way that is more closely linked to the Taizé Contemplative Liturgy — created by an ecumenical Christian monastic fraternity in Taizé, Saône-et-Loire, Burgundy, France.

We are Queer-Centric

There are many spiritual traditions that respect and honour LGBTQ persons. Here are a few examples:

  • Native American spirituality: Many Native American cultures have a long history of accepting and honouring LGBTQ people. For example, the Navajo people have a third gender category called “nadle,” which is neither male nor female. Nadle people are often respected for their unique abilities and insights.
  • Hinduism: Hinduism is a diverse religion with many different traditions, but many Hindu texts and teachings affirm the equality of all people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. For example, the Bhagavad Gita, one of the most important Hindu texts, teaches that “all beings are equal in the eyes of God.”
  • Buddhism: Buddhism is another diverse religion with many different traditions, but many Buddhist teachings emphasize compassion and non-judgment. This has led many LGBTQ Buddhists to find a sense of acceptance and belonging in that tradition.
  • Esotericism: Most modern esotericists believe that all people are sacred, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
  • Queer-centric spirituality: There are also many queer-centric spiritual traditions that have emerged in recent years. These traditions are often created by and for LGBTQ people, and they offer a unique way to explore spirituality and connect with the divine.

Within the context of these historic traditions, we exist as a Queer-Centric Spiritual Sanctuary — a place for LGBTQ+ people, their allies and loved ones and those who value bodily autonomy, freedom sexual expression, liberation of all oppressed people, and those who wish to see the end of patriarchal, white supremacist, Christian nationalism and injustice.

We Recognise All of Life as Sacrament

While we have a solid foundation in Catholic Folk Spirituality, esotericism and mysticism, our view of “sacrament” is not limited to the seven traditional sacraments of Christian tradition.

The word “sacrament” comes from the Latin word “sacramentum“, which means “sacred mystery”.

In Christianity, a sacrament is a religious rite that is believed to be a visible sign of the grace of the Birther of the Cosmos.

There are many different definitions of sacrament, but they all share the following elements:

  • An outward sign: A sacrament is something that can be seen and experienced with the senses.
  • An inward grace: A sacrament is believed to be a channel of divine grace, which is a gift of the love, wisdom and presence that has been anthropomorphised by primitive cultures into the “God concept”.
  • Instituted by Christ: A sacrament is believed to have been instituted by Jesus himself in traditional religious traditions. We do not believe that Rabbi Jesus actually instituted any “sacrament”. We recognise that he, as an master of the Sacred Mysteries of Alexandria, relied on some of the ancient sacraments, often reframing them in ways that were more culturally accessible to people in the first century of the Common Era.

At the centre of our sacramental experience is the experience of Eucharist — a sacred mystery that has its roots in the Eleusinian and Dionysian Mystery Traditions. With this foundation, we recognise Eucharist as the celebration of our Sacred Unity and Oneness. As such, it becomes the centre of a wheel of sacramental experiences that are available to all people, including the sacrament of bodily autonomy, the sacrament of sexual expression, the sacrament of forgiveness, and others.

We Are An Esoteric, Folk-Magic Tradition

Folk magic practices often evolve out of the oppression, colonisation and injustices experienced by a particular people or culture.

Within the context of pre-institutional Catholicism, the Sacred Mysteries were often taught in the homes of the spiritual leaders — women, men and non-binary adepts, who understood the layers of meaning that exist in a Mystery Tradition.

As the institutional church came into being — rife with the agendas of centuries of political and religious figures — that corruption began to oppress the people.

Catholic Folk Magic isn’t a singular practice, but is an organic esoteric response to such oppression. In Mexico, it looks like Brujeria de Rancho, in Southern Italy, it expresses as Benedicaria and Segnature. It’s expressions include the Celtic tradition of home-churches, and the syncretic religious traditions of Gran Caneria in Spain.

The Contemplative Order of Compassion Sanctuary embraces an open, accessible, and unrestricted freedom of expression of one’s personally-held spiritual traditions — including freedom from religion.

We Are Deconstructionist

Cambridge Dictionary states that ‘deconstruction’ is “the act of breaking something down into its separate parts in order to understand its meaning,” and in the context of our spiritual community and core values, deconstruction is an essential component of our rich diversity of spiritual expression and the creation of a safe space for those on such a journey.

Religious or spiritual deconstruction is a term applied to the process of questioning, doubting, and ultimately rejecting aspects of Christian teaching — particularly, institutional religious doctrine, dogma and fearmongering.

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Religious Trauma for LGBTQ Persons

Religious trauma is a form of complex trauma that can occur when an individual experiences negative, harmful, or invalidating messages about their sexual orientation or gender identity from a religious context. This can include messages from religious leaders, family members, or peers.

Religious trauma can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental health, physical health, and spiritual well-being. Symptoms of religious trauma can include:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Low self-esteem
  • Shame
  • Guilt
  • Dissociation
  • Substance abuse
  • Suicidal thoughts

Religious trauma can result from an event, series of events, relationships, or circumstances within or connected to religious beliefs, practices, or structures. It can be the result of indoctrination messages, coercion, humiliation, embarrassment, and abuse.

Religious trauma syndrome (RTS) occurs when an individual struggles with leaving a religion or a set of beliefs that has led to their indoctrination. It often involves the trauma of breaking away from a controlling environment, lifestyle, or religious figure.

Religious trauma can also make it difficult for individuals to connect with their spirituality or faith. It can lead to feelings of alienation, isolation, and despair.

If you have experienced religious trauma, it is important to know that you are not alone. There are many resources available to help you heal. You can find support groups, therapy, and other resources online and in your community.

The Contemplative Order of Compassion Sanctuary was formed to provide a safe space for Queer-Centric spirituality without religious dogma and primitive ideologies.

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The Case for Spirituality as Mental Health Self-Care for Queer Folks

While the institution of the church has shut so many LGBTQ+ people out, spirituality and tradition still offer much solace for those who feel alone.

written by BEX MUI – The Advocate

As a professional queer and social justice advocate, I never thought I’d want to champion the side of faith and spirituality. I was raised Catholic, but like far too many LGBTQ+ people, I had a brutal and painful falling-out with the church when I came out that I continue to work through.

What I’ve come to realize over the years, though, is all the ways that my life is still shaped by my upbringing in organized religion, and surprisingly to me, the benefits this continues to bring me. It was the first and most formative place that I learned leadership and community, and in many ways where I learned activism.

What has fueled my healing is a deeper understanding of the separation of church and spirituality. Many churches are similar to other institutions (education, the medical system, government, and more) in the United States that are plagued by centuries of white supremacy, colonization, puritanical sex-negativity, ableism, homophobia, and transphobia. Church and religious leaders and the institutions that they have built have no right to own my spirituality or my ability to seek support from higher powers (for me that includes gods, goddesses, gender-fluid spirit guides, and ancestors). In rejecting the institutions they made, I also cut myself off from beliefs, rituals, and practices that I actually want in my life as a queer person of color.

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